DEAR ABBY: My spouse and I married in our early 40s. I've given my all to her, however I've at all times felt underappreciated. I at all times wished to be a father, however she didn’t need to have children. After we had been collectively for a number of years, she modified her thoughts, so we determined to strive for a kid and had been shocked to find after solely every week of attempting that we had been pregnant. Just a few months in the past, we had been blessed with our lovely, wholesome daughter. My spouse had problem with breastfeeding, so she determined to cease and solely bottle-feed. I've been supportive of her determination,