DEAR ABBY: My father-in-law is his personal worst enemy. While my husband and I had been courting, we visited his father frequently. Since our marriage, our visits have turn out to be much less frequent. This is as a result of my husband and I each have demanding jobs, and I'm in class. We are BUSY attempting to safe a secure life collectively. My FIL has taken offense to this. He insists that the actual cause we don’t go to is as a result of we're offended with him and hate him. We have tried explaining that it isn’t so, however he refuses to consider us. He’s satisfied that he has in some way deeply offended