DEAR ABBY: My spouse and I just lately hosted some longtime mates for a number of days whereas they had been passing by means of our space on trip. We had a tremendous time reconnecting, though my spouse commented after they left that they appeared to have “slowed down a bit” — to which I responded, “Yeah. Us, too, I guess.” We simply obtained an e-mail from that couple’s grownup daughter, with whom we’re additionally pleasant, asking about our perceptions of her dad and mom’ well-being. We usually are not snug responding to her very pointed questions on their consuming habits, bedtimes, taking of medicines, psychological sharpness, and many others. whereas they stayed with us. Is