DEAR ABBY: I'm single, retired and don't have any youngsters. I do have some well being points. My sisters have begun to hound me about eliminating issues in order that they received’t must do it within the occasion that I die. My whole property, which is near $1 million, will go to them and their youngsters. It is exhausting for me to pack issues and transfer bins, and they're no assist. I’d prefer to benefit from the time I've left and never must take heed to their complaints. What ought to I do? — FED UP AND TIRED DEAR FED UP: Tell your sisters you want to die (when the time comes) surrounded by the mementos