DEAR ABBY: I believe uncomfortable receiving items, and I to find it arduous to fulfill my husband’s requests for consistent items, particularly after I really feel I already give such a lot. He continuously asks me to shop for him issues, a few of which might be very dear. I’m a saver, no longer a spender, and I attempt to watch my price range. I already pay the entire family expenses, despite the fact that we make the similar sum of money. I owned my area earlier than we met, and he chips in with occasional upgrades and upkeep or takes me out to dinner from time to time. But I pay for nearly all of bills,