DEAR ABBY: I've been seeing a girl who's 21 years youthful than I'm. She says she loves me, however I'm hesitant due to our age distinction. We have recognized one another for years. She had a crush on me when she was 16, however I used to be married on the time, and he or she was too younger. We made love a few occasions when she was in her 20s as a result of I used to be divorced and he or she was single. Now it’s 10 years later. I’m in my late 50s; she’s in her 30s. We are each single, and he or she needs to care for me for the remainder