DEAR ABBY: I've been married for 14 years to a person a large number of folks in our the city assume has no flaws. He is helping a large number of folks, and he's additionally a pastor, however he ignores me and takes me as a right, individually, emotionally and sexually. He’d reasonably watch TV till he falls asleep at the sofa. He appears to be like at pornography on-line, and I catch him incessantly. Even if he’s busy at paintings, he unearths time for everyone however me. He at all times has excuses. Since I married him, I've supported him and feature long gone the additional mile in all facets — his paintings, church actions. I've