DEAR ABBY: One of my dearest buddies has an uncongenial dependancy of constructing snide feedback about people who find themselves obese. We’ve been buddies for greater than 40 years, and he or she has at all times been this manner. Now that I’m older, I've packed on a couple of kilos myself, and when she says these items in a dialog, I’m like, “Hey, I’m overweight too! Am I disgusting?” I will’t appear to seek out the phrases to get her to consider what she says. It doesn’t in reality harm my emotions, but it surely makes her sound like a terrible particular person, and he or she in reality isn’t. She’s an expensive in nearly each and every